Most people tend to hide behind their egoistical mask, inevitably cultivating negative sentiments upon others. On a closer inspection majority of them aren't actually close to being egoistical, they're just verily... shy or just afraid to make a fool out of themselves. I'm not just talking about myself here hehe...
Who doesn't welcome the feeling of acceptance and acknowledgment? Everyone does. What actually hinders them from opening up and totally be themselves is the lack of trust towards others. Afraid that other people won't accept them for who they really are or maybe passing bad judgments on them. Perhaps due to previous involvement or they're just waitin' for the other party to initiate something or maybe they just don't care...
Speaking bout' bad judgments, unwanted grapevines... In truth we can't really run away from all that, moreover prevent it. Whether you choose to stay quiet (& nod once in a while), be the clown & pretty much get involve in everything around you, or plainly ignores everyone.... you just can't escape.
People have their own opinions and you can't do anything bout' that. People have mouth, you can't go on stapling their mouth, that would be downright absurd & impossible (I wouldn't recommend that...ever, please don't do this... I won't be held responsible!!). Even if they don't voice it out, they still thought bout' it. The best thing to do is probably to just ignore... or if you're a good friend / blunt person... just go ahead and confront the other party! =D At least they know. They might hate you for it but surely they will remember what you say and weigh it again afterward when all the REDs are gone.
Some people with scary, unfriendly and demure countenance or presence, when you get to know them, are in fact amicable people and not all of them friendly faces peeps are wat they seem... so go on ahead and make a fool out of yourself (or not...maybe just take the first step), well at least you tried & people with enuff brain cell know that you've at least done ur part to get to know them, the rest is all up to them. Not your fault if they don't like you... you're just being you... (but if alot of people don't like you then, maybe there's a problem... *sweat* unless ur an uber handsome villain >_<>. Opportunity, acquaintances, friends or best friends ... you might find them in the most unlikely places.
Yes... sorry after the long hiatus I'm just back with personal rambles. Well think about it... Just wanna say don't judge a durian by it's cover... the inside is really soft and sweet ya (sometimes...). You never know once you open them, smell and eat them... O_o sounds perdy darn distorted. Well lets disregard the pun and look at the bright side... "Don't judge a book by it's cover" is all I wanna say. =D
Yes I'll be back with updates... soon...
Yes I'll be back with updates... soon...
